Eternal life

Do not think that your children are “your” children just because you “created” and raised them.
Nobody belongs to anybody. That’s the first rule you must remember upon coming into this world. Nobody is even able to belong to anybody. Belonging is something you came up with on this Planet in order to make it easier to fit into the molds you found when you arrived here.
Your children, just like yourselves—the children of your parents—are only here because they wanted it that way, because you wanted it that way. Nobody is born here without first wanting and needing it. Absolutely nobody. And it’s impossible for anybody to be born into life circumstances which they didn’t want or need.
Everything you have encountered by coming into your life has been set up for you with great precision to teach you exactly what you need at this time, as part of your age-old journey. For you, this is just one of the roles you play in your infinite existence outside of this one. Understand that, and you’ll more easily deal with all the trials and tribulations, you’ll await them with a smile knowing that, in a way, you have “ordered” them so you could master another lesson.
Look at yourself and your life, look at your willingness and desire for progress. If they exist, then everything is perfectly okay, exactly as it should be. If there is no willingness or desire for progress in your life, you should take a good look around you and find them. Otherwise, you’ll stay eternally stuck where you are, and come back into a very similar life after this one. That just shows you how perfect you are as beings, how great and powerful, wise, how brave and fearless. Live with those words in your mind and allow that being to manifest itself. Willingness and desire will then break to the surface, and you’ll move on to precisely where you’ve chosen to go, precisely towards what you’ve chosen to learn. You, only you, and no-one else.